An estimated 30% of American adults are estranged from at least one family member—a stark reminder of a widespread, often unspoken reality. Carla Seaquist confronts this difficult topic head-on in her poignant and introspective book, Across The Kitchen Table. Through the lens of a strained mother-daughter relationship, Seaquist offers a deeply moving account of family rifts, emotional wounds, and the difficult path toward reconciliation.
More than a memoir, Across The Kitchen Table is a thoughtful examination of the emotional complexities that underpin family life. At its core lies the devastating loss of Seaquist’s daughter and the resulting disintegration of familial connections. With unflinching honesty and emotional clarity, she narrates her journey through grief, isolation, and ultimately, the fragile process of healing. Her writing invites readers into an intimate space where sorrow and hope coexist, encouraging reflection on their own familial ties and the power of meaningful communication.
Carla Seaquist brings a seasoned voice to this deeply personal story. A celebrated playwright, essayist, and author, she is known for tackling weighty social and cultural themes with nuance and compassion. Her acclaimed plays—including Who Cares? and Looking for Atticus—along with essays featured in major publications, showcase her talent for weaving insight with humanity. Seaquist’s literary style in Across The Kitchen Table is no different—elegant, courageous, and profoundly empathetic.
What sets this book apart is its refusal to shy away from the messiness of estrangement. Seaquist opens the door on a subject many avoid, exploring the inner turmoil, misunderstandings, and silent suffering that often accompany fractured relationships. But even amid the darkness, she offers a glimmer of hope. Her story is one of perseverance, forgiveness, and the belief that reconnection—while never guaranteed—is worth striving for.
Across The Kitchen Table speaks not only to those who have lived through estrangement but to anyone who values the bonds of family. It urges readers to confront uncomfortable truths, extend grace, and rebuild bridges where possible. With heartfelt candor and wisdom, Seaquist reminds us that the heart of family lies not in perfection, but in the courage to heal.
Watch the book trailer: https://youtu.be/lmyVYfJKPsw
